Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Recipe for Love


How often do you get to enjoy making dinner? Really enjoy it? A few nights ago, we had homemade calzones. I made the dough earlier in the day, and by evening each member of the family got to make their very own custom dinner. Warm, chewy, crusty calzones. The house smelled divine, too. There was a bit of dough leftover, so I saved it until tonight. For dinner this evening, I let the kids make their own personal pizzas. To them, it's a completely different meal, and I don't feel guilty giving them pizza-like meals twice in one week when everything is natural and made from scratch.

Tonight, as they happily munched away on the pizza, my mind wandered to what I could write about this experience. It wouldn't really work on the Low Cost Low Carb blog, although it's all natural and a great vehicle for veggies. Then I considered this blog. My son and I did have a conversation about our homemade pizza vs. Dominoes', during which he learned that he could have 32 pizzas that he made for the cost of 1 take-away pizza. ("And yours is made with LOVE, Boo. Dominoes doesn't put love in their pizzas.") After a few more minutes of silent chewing he settled my mental debate for me.

With the wisdom and mature stoicism that's a bit scary coming out of a little kid, my son suggested "the next time we move, you should get the recipe so we can have this again".

As a military family, we move all the time. We do our best to make the transitions as easy as we can for the kids, and hope they're too little yet to notice. Obviously, they noticed. And accept it, too, apparently. As much mayhem as it causes in our lives, the lost friends, foreign surroundings, trials and challenges, the kids' only concern was that we could enjoy that pizza again in a new home. Together. Now THAT'S a recipe I'll never forget.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

No Soap For You!


I probably should have known better than to leave a 2-year-old alone with running water and liquid soap. At least, when I put it that way, I should have known better. But it was just a trickle of water, and I'd already overseen the soap application, and the pump was out of reach... wasn't it? And I was only out of sight for a moment, wasn't I? Besides, she's an experienced hand-washer. These are germy times in which we live, and a child has to learn young how to combat e-coli, salmonella and the flu. She's been scrubbing her own paws since before she could walk. Perhaps that was my downfall. An experienced hand-washer knows that if a little soap is good, then more is better. If one squirt will get you clean, then two, or three, or ten squirts will get you really, really clean. She also knew that the knob on the right gets you more water, and it's not too hot on that side either (that OTHER side can be dicey, especially if somebody flushes). And so, applying her years of hand-washing wisdom, my toddler cleaned her hands. And the vanity. And her clothes. And the floor. Sheesh! It takes me way longer to clean the bathroom and do the laundry. Perhaps I should try wearing the laundry while cleaning the bathroom; it worked for her. Sort of.